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      <image:title>Heart In Mind Blog - Understanding Estrangement: Why It’s More Complex Than It Seems - About the Author</image:title>
      <image:caption>Gina Li, LCSW, is a therapist based in the Bay Area, California and founder of Heart In Mind. She works with young adults, Asian Americans, and caregivers who are navigating challenges with estrangement, relationships, and identity. Her approach is collaborative and attentive to the ways culture and past experiences, including past traumatic experiences, shape how we relate to ourselves and others. She supports individuals in making sense of emotional distance/hurt in their relationships and in reconnecting with themselves in a way that feels grounded and aligned.</image:caption>
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