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      <image:title>Heart In Mind Blog - Why Adult Children Become Estranged from their Parents - “The presumed/expected role of your family as caregivers can make family estrangement ever more painful and confusing.”</image:title>
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      <image:caption>Gina Li, LCSW, is a therapist based in the San Francisco Bay Area, California and founder of Heart In Mind. She works with young adults, Asian Americans, and caregivers who are navigating challenges with estrangement, relationships, and identity. Her approach is collaborative and attentive to the ways culture and past experiences, including past traumatic experiences, shape how we relate to ourselves and others. She supports individuals in making sense of emotional distance/hurt in their relationships and in reconnecting with themselves in a way that feels grounded and aligned.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Heart In Mind Blog - Understanding Estrangement: Why It Can Feel Complicated - About the Author</image:title>
      <image:caption>Gina Li, LCSW, is a therapist based in the San Francisco Bay Area, California and founder of Heart In Mind. She works with young adults, Asian Americans, and caregivers who are navigating challenges with estrangement, relationships, and identity. Her approach is collaborative and attentive to the ways culture and past experiences, including past traumatic experiences, shape how we relate to ourselves and others. She supports individuals in making sense of emotional distance/hurt in their relationships and in reconnecting with themselves in a way that feels grounded and aligned.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Losses from things like: terminal illness, estrangement from our parents, infidelity, a break up from a romantic partner, a break-up from a friendship, losing a career path you were planning to take, a loss of the family/children you thought you’d have, etc…all of these losses can be incredibly difficult to navigate and recover from—and often, less readily recognized or validated.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Reconnecting to who you are, in spite of not having the life you hoped/imagine yourself having, is a crucial step in addressing non-finite grief/living losses/ambiguous grief.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - Trauma and Cognitive Dissonance - These coping responses speak to our attempts to reclaim control over a situation which has become out of our control. They speak to our attempts to reconcile the cognitive dissonance that can arise from the mismatch between how we’re perceived and what we know about our true selves.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - Trauma and Cognitive Dissonance - However disconcerting and confusing our trauma responses can be, these responses are normal, healthy, and make sense. They are reflective of our body and mind’s attempts to keep us alive when we were in active danger.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - Things Happen for A Reason? - Oftentimes, we might have been told this after something terrible happens to us or the people/world around us. And sometimes, it can offer some relief from the pain that we and others are experiencing because…if we can say that something happened for a reason, then we can justify why it happened and thereafter, regain control to prevent it from happening again.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - Culturally-Responsive Ways to Set Healthy Boundaries: Collectivist and Individualist Cultural Considerations</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - Culturally-Responsive Ways to Set Healthy Boundaries: Collectivist and Individualist Cultural Considerations - “Collectivist cultures emphasize the needs and goals of the group as a whole over the needs and desires of each individual” (Cherry and Morin, 2022)</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - What’s in a “healthy relationship”?</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - What depression can look and feel like; Considerations for Asian Americans, immigrants, and children of immigrants</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - What is “relational trauma”? - “Relational trauma” refers to the toll that overwhelming, and devastating experiences, such as abuse, neglect, betrayal, abandonment, etc. within relationships, especially close relationships, can have on us.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog Archives - What is “intergenerational trauma”? - In short, intergenerational trauma refers to when the effects of traumatic experience(s) are passed on from one generation to another generation…and then passed onto another generation and so on and so forth.</image:title>
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